I'm a paraplegic t-12 and l-1 , male and this topic has troubled me for
years. Can we have sex ,,, because i made so many mistakes with it, I did everything i could to to a part of life again with other people. I party and went out on weekin like everyone else did. I went to college for a while and didn't have any luck there with sex. But finally i met a few women and we had sex.. So yes you can have sex but like me i lose a lot and had to figure it out all over again, and it was great too. I had understanding people to who was nice and not abuses with me too. I'm single and i'm not married yet, i go to a few sites i have also for fantasy...and i just love them too, you have to be a little open minded in them...syber sex sites ....3-d site ,, and you have a avatar that goes round all over the places, it is something new and i enjoy it very much. WEll that might help you out some ,,, I don't know .....but i hope you find out about all your looking for in you life,, and hope its a good one too.
If you are a quadriplegics you can enjoy life to a lot more but u must work at it like all people does i've read some in here say it start in our minds and thatis so right. We try to be as independant as possible. yes go for it and look on your computer for the 3d's adult sites.. I go to one and use my name there but u don't have to use any name you want too...