I love my boyfriend and he loves me, but we have problems when we make love, because his penis is too long and hurt me. For us in a relationship sex is very important so we tryed every positions to help us, but nothing works.
You should lead the way and show him what feels good to you (this can be very sexy). Some men need direction on how to be gentile (they think harder and rougher is better, which sometimes just doesn't fly). Do you feel comfortable taking the lead in such a way? If not, sit and talk to him about how much it is bothering you. If he loves you I a sure he will want to make sex as good for you as possible.
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Interesting question and never quite understood how it is a male's penis cannot accommodate a woman's vagina due to length and size. The human body is a marvelous piece of handy work and intercourse can often be achieved without pain by first identifying the correct cause. Too large of a penis can often (initially) create discomfort for the woman as her vaginal opening and/or canal length may be disproportionate to the man's penis size. The recommendation is for the woman to first be seen by her doctor to rule out vaginitis or other symptoms. Secondly, the man should see his doctor to determine if his size is an abnormality and if so, corrective measures can be utilized by his physician to correct this. In the meantime, be gentle, slow and try alternative methods for achieving satisfactory sexual relations. Any further questions let me know...RICK bigrickjr57@aol.com
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Maybe you could make a foam-plastic ring around his penis, which stops it penetrating too deep?
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