My husband wonts to have a threesom i dont wont to ...

Hi, ------------- You are absolutely right. If he loved you, respected you and had great sex with you he wouldn't ask for a treesome. Please tell him that you agree to a treesom provided that you add another man to your bed.... I bet he'll object to it.... That means he is selfish, thinks only on himself, his own pleasures..... No offence, please, but it is a bad sign to your relations (has no respect to you, doesn't mind to hurt you, is totally not considerative, etc). My best advice is: Attend to your relations (marriage counseling). On top of it, treesome leads very often to frustrations and to a divorce. Better reject that idea. ------------------------------ Best regards,

if he truely loves you and your good in bed he shouldnt even ask you about a threesome. thats his way of saying hey i want to cheat but with you there. that would end up breaking you 2 up over something stupid...   hope you make a good choice

Go!  OronD 2 thumbs up ...  Yes , tell him as long as the 3rd person is a Man , I am sure that is not what he's got in mind .    Sorry to say but your husband is telling you he wants to committ ADULTERY , he probably already has someone in mind , I would be finding out who . This is not the behavior of a honest , loyal , loving husband who respects you , he's got no problem putting your health at risk .   If you want to stay with this man and  work on your marriage get in to counseling immediately , keep in mind this will only work if you both give it your all and that means NO third party interference in to your marriage .  Your husband wants to take what is a precious gift of love the intimacy between husband and wife and share it with someone else .   Perhaps he already has and you just do not know about it .  Let him know that committing adultery in front of you or behind your back  is totally unacceptable to you .  My friend get you and your husband in to see a marriage counselor , NOW .

Hi,

     Your husband does not respect you.  This is not a good sign.  Don't do anything that you're not comfortable with.  If you refuse, he probably will get another woman on the side because he can't get enough sex. 

    My friend OronD suggested for you to agree for a threesome provided the 3rd one is a man.  What happens if he agreed?  Are you going to do it?  Your man is kinky,  I don't think he'd mind if the 3rd person is a man.  So better not make any suggestions like this.

    There is definitely something wrong with your marriage.  You both need marriage counseling. If after the counseling he still does that kind of stuff again, then I would just say goodbye to him and let him have all the 3-somes, 4-somes,10-somes he wants.  This is not a marriage that will last a lifetime.

That is a matter of individual preference and wanting to fulfill a fantasy of sorts.  Tell him you are not interested, sorry.  Leave it at that...your mission in life is not to always comply with your husband's wishes.  He'll get over it....

RICK in Lacey, WA  Bigrickjr57@aol.com