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I have been dating this guy for the last 10 months. Before we dated he was on dating websites close to porn not like match or eharmony I call it whores.com.. He also said that he had to take cealese when he was with these other woman. (He's 40) He claims he hasn't had to use it since he has been with me. I am lucky if I actually have sex once a week. I seriously thought he was cheating on me but he is with me everyday the only time we are not together is when he is working. I can be naked in front of him and he doesnt even notice. I am not ugly or fat but im starting to have a complex. He claims that he is sexualy and physiacally attracted but im not feeling it. Im at the point where I want to end the relationship and meet someone that appreciates me. This is the first man I have been with that doesn't want to even touch me.

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You are right that you deserve someone who appreciates you fully, and you also deserve passion in your relationship. You should talk openly to your boyfriend about your feelings. If he told you that he was a very sexual person before your relationship, then you definitely deserve an explanation. Wait to see how he reacts to your feelings after you talk to him, and if you are not fully satisfied, then perhaps it is time to move on and find someone who can  fully satisfy YOU! Good luck.

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Have you ever heard of the Madonna -whore complex? I read this today and it fits him perfectly. I am going to show him the article tonight. If you have heard of it waht are your thoughts?

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He might be a victim of the madonna-whore complex.

You might try to get him interested in sex with you by asking him for his inner sexual fantasies, and then behave as the woman in thelse fantasies.

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Are you sure that he is not in secret using Internet sex?
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