Jeanine,
PLEASE follow RateNerd's recommendations. Step one is critical and make take a while but you must do it, so get crackin' and begin to connect with local folk that can address your specific needs. Options differ geographically so begin to network with the good souls who are your neighbors.
I think you've enough information to find local helpers. If I can help be in touch. Understand no one knows where you are so can't point you to specific sources.