Is it possible to be in love with 2 people or more?

sure you can,different people for different reasons!

While I think it's possible to love multiple people at one time, I think it's only possible to be in love with one person at a time. In my opinion, being in love has more to do with the person's whole being, wanting to spend every second of every day with the person and wanting to make him/her happy for no other reason than that you enjoy seeing him/her happy. It's not possible to feel this way with two people at the same time because you cannot want to spend every minute of every day with two people simultaneously. (And if you do, you're not wanting every minute, but rather, half the day and this means there's something else that you clearly want as well, leaving the first 'love' to be alone.) Does that make sense?

Sure it is, but only if you confuse love with the natural proclivity to seek out suitable mates within the natural order of the preservation of species theory. Look, you should be in love with yourself first, after that it's all easy.

My answer to this question come from my personal experience.  I think it is possible to feel love and attraction towards more than one person but when you actually get down to it, it is not possible to be IN love with more than one person.  What usually happens is that something in your relationship begins to lack.  A quality from your spouse is missing and someone else portrays that missing quality towards you.  Whether it is attention, sexual attraction, listening or just plain communicating.  Because you feel drawn towards the missing qualities you begin to feel strong emotions for the person filling in the blanks, so to speak.  What you have to do is find out what the other person is providing you that your spouse is not.  Then you need to work on getting those missing qualities communicated to your spouse to give him or her a chance to work on it.  It could also be the fact that you are falling out of love with one and in love with another and they are somewhat crossing.  You really need to sit down and take a look at where your relationships stand and what your heart is really telling you.