I can't do justice here but did you know that your note was illegally converted into a security and sold without your permission or knowledge ? Did you know that you as the maker of the note are entitled to dividends and compensation when the note was sold ? I could go on and on but suffice it to say the SEC, FTC, HUD, etc. are good places to start.
I'm in this business every day (personally on 5 mortgages) and doing residential and commercial modifications and am in the process of rescinding 5 mortgages for lender fraud.
Contact me personally and I can point you to some resources. Know this if nothing else, the lender is only looking out for their interest and just short a baseball bat will get their attention. You can do this with the right knowledge.
Google "wheres the note" and "foreclosing without the note" and get educated about all the fraud and laws the lenders break. Finally google "kansas supreme court ruling on MERS".
and yes we can help as well, but get educated first. You have a ton of leverage as a homeowner and most don't know because the banks would have you believe they are in control and in reality they are not. They just need to be exposed.