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How to plan the perfect date

What are some creative ideas for a fun and romantic date? I do not want to do the typical "dinner and a movie" date. I really like this girl and if I am going to ask her out I want to show her that I'm making an effort to win her over. I want it to be perfect. Any ideas?


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A foolish heart will call on you to toss your dreams away, then turn around and blame you for the way you went astray. - Grateful Dead, Foolish Heart

A lot depends really on what you like and what she likes.  But, I'll just throw out some ideas.  You could go on a hike and prepare everything for a picnic during the hike.  You could take her to a comedy club and then go for a walk on a beach afterwards.  You could go canoing (if there's a place near where you live) or do some other kinds of outdoor activities (if there are these things around and if you enjoy them).  You could go to one of those pottery places where you can paint the pieces that were built.  I love that stuff and it would be really cute.  I would also maybe add the element of surprise.  Just tell her what to wear and when you're picking her up... and plan it all out.  Theme parks and carnivals are also a lot of fun. 

Posted 2008-01-03T12:15:36Z
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Get another pair of bicycles and ride it with her through a park , you can try a mini golf or an amusement park which always will get both of you laughing.

Posted 2008-01-03T13:09:52Z
 
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Go to an art gallery, know at least 4 works that are showing and the lives of two artists, pick one that is your favourite, get her the postcard/poster of what is her favourite (if they have it) as a surprise.

Afterward Go to an actual cafe or restaurant (starbucks doesn't count) for a light dessert.

On the way out from cafe/restaurant, get the flowers for her. Women love that.  Escort her home.

Some people like to give flowers right away.  That's not really considerate if you are heading out and both were getting ready to get out the door.  If you meet somewhere, she has to lug them around with her, or you will. 

 Oh, and listen.  Really listen.  And convey to her that you are listening.  So get to know questions that are not single word responses, and compliment her for what she says.

If you want romance, this is a great start.  The whole point of it is actually to talk and listen to each other while having the ability to look at each other, everything else is a prop.  

Posted 2008-01-03T17:41:32Z
 
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I really like Deadhead's answer, but I would say also that there is nothing wrong with dinner and a movie.  The reason it is so cliche' is that it is something people enjoy doing together. 

Posted 2008-01-08T04:12:32Z
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Try some backyard tourism. Do you live near a museum, state or national park, beach, lake, or landmark? Plan a day trip, pack a picnic lunch, and make a Saturday of it.

Posted 2009-08-05T04:11:52Z
 
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"LEARNING is fundamental!"

God, Country, Self..in that order.

VISION, Change and Education=PROGRESS

The answer depends on what you and she have in common.

  1. On the first date, I would take her to a place where you can talk and get to know her (a walk on the beach, boating, a coffee house, tea house or a club with a nice atmosphere).  I don't recommend a restaurant because it's too hard to eat and talk on a first date. 
  2. If you have similar interests, plan your next date based on what you learned from the first date.
  3. Keep building the relationship, making sure that there is time for good conversation and continuous learning about your date.
  4. I would avoid taking her to a movie early on because it's difficult to talk and pay attention to a movie at the same time.  Depending on the climate and time of year, outside activities that allow interaction with one another are going to keep her wondering where you will take her next and looking forward to spending more time with you if she is interested in you.

Blessings & Good Luck,

~ nmpb ~

 

Posted 2009-09-22T08:10:41Z
 

There are absolutely no perfect date, all we have to believe is a date that is very romantic, the one that both of you can enjoy and something unique in it. Remember that whatever plans you might have, always consider the happines that is can possibly bring by that date.www.howtoapproachher.com

Posted 2009-09-25T09:37:57Z
 

Some of those are great ideas, I hope someone takes me on one of those :)

 

Posted 2009-11-05T06:06:03Z

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