Ok i am 15teen and me and my boyfriend really want ...

Wow, you will totally destroy your life if you have a baby at 15 years old. Do yourself a favor and volunteer on the pre-natal floor of a hospital. Get some experience taking care of a baby, or even babysit a baby and see how you deal with the pressure and taking care of a baby. And remember, you need to have money to take care of a baby. Do you and your boyfriend have plans to get a job if you do have a baby?

I really think you need to think this through before you go having unprotected sex with your boyfriend again.

I respect that you are in love and want to have a baby with your boyfriend. But if you are concerned about what others will say about you, it's a clear indication that your hesitations are well-founded. While you both may have jobs right now, I cannot imagine that you are making much more than minimum wage. Don't you want to spoil your baby? Don't you want to provide your baby with only the best clothes and toys and opportunities in life? Working for minimum wage the rest of your life won't allow you to do this. Finishing your education is and should be the most important thing for your and your boyfriend right now. Take that urge to have a baby and put the energy into a more productive endeavor, like volunteering as a candy stripper at the hospital, babysit for less fortunate families, or even volunteer at your local animal shelter. Helping those less fortunate will give you the same feeling that you think having a baby right now will do. Once you finish your education, you will be more financially stable to make a decision about having a baby with your boyfriend.

Best of luck.

I'm glad to hear you both have decided to wait at least until you find better jobs. Study hard and succeed in your school studies. Keep me updated.

I'm glad I could help. If you ever want to talk again, just send me a message.

Im fifteen too, and i know how you feel about being in love and thinking he is the one and you want to spend your life and have a family with him, but having a baby right now will just hinder your opportunities in life. Waiting til you have a good job and education will be the best for you and the baby, and this gives you more time to make sure he really is the one you wanna be with.