i have been with my boyfriend for 9 years everything went great for awhile and then the last 4 years of our relationship has been very abusive. I did cheat on him a few times and i really thnk this is what caused it so i learned to take it day after day just thinkin i deserved it, and i still felt very attracted to him and sexually. I had our son who is 2 now. He then would beat me in front of him and make me say goodbye to hima and make me feel like i wasnt going to see him again after that i said this is it. When he finally realized that i wasnt trying anymore to be there for him or us he changed everything has been like they use to be but now im no longer physically attracted to him i dont like to kiss him or even hug him and have sex. I really do wantot make it work b/c we do have a son and he has changed for the better but how do i overcome me not wanting to be intimate with him anymore what do i do?????
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