I think that most men view women as people that they can have fun with, most of the time, and I think that many women view men in this way a lot of the time as well. It is only when people find someone who is special, someone who fits the description of what they've been looking for, that they are willing to settle down and start a relationship. This is sometimes hurtful to women, as they tend to be ready for a relationship more often than men. However, there are a lot of good men that are not just looking for sex. They too want someone special. You, as a woman, just need to be picky and not open yourself up too much before knowing who the person is.