Be who you want to be, Not what others want to see.
omgsh ive been through this. Ok you cant make someone come back.lets put it that way. i loved my bf so much even after he made me cry.when he dumped me,i thought i died. so i held onto his heart hoping he would come bak. but he didnt.he had moved on so i do. but if you love her so much,stick with her until ur ready to let her go.theres no guarenteeing she'll come bak.