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Why do people cheat?

why do people cheat?


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I believe the main reason people cheat is b/c they feel something in their relationship is lacking and they aren't happy in that relationship at the time. So instead of working on the relationship, they go outside of the relationship to find happiness. There is usually an underlying cause to cheating..but sometimes it is as simple as they were horny and made a bad decision.

Posted 2009-02-12T19:07:32Z
 

People cheat in 2 situations only...eighter they are in a very unhappy relationship where one of the partners already cheatted (and another wants rewansh) OR one of the partner (or both) feels very happy and sure in a very happy relationship and cheat thinking that relationship they are in will last forever...:)

Posted 2009-02-12T23:17:32Z
 

People cheat because they find people who are willing to cheat with them. Very simple.

Posted 2009-02-12T23:59:46Z
 

In a situation whereby one among the two parties is not honest to the other, asuming the boyfriend is aside dating another girl for sure if she notice that she will avange by cheating him in one way or the order. Mz

Posted 2009-02-13T10:33:14Z
 
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The might be lacking something in the current relationship. They cheat because they have nothing better to do.

Posted 2009-02-13T21:32:21Z
 

First there is something called spell check, before submitting things where other people are going to have to read them kindly do us a favor and use it. I don't want to be an ass but it's torture trying to read them. secondly people cheat for various reasons there will never be a simple answer to that question. And you'll only drive yourself crazy trying to come up with an answer. 

Posted 2009-02-14T07:27:21Z
 
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I'd Rather Be Hated For Who I Am,

Than Loved For Who I'm Not.

People cheat for many different reasons but the main reason is that they are un-happy in their current relationship adn feel they need others to satisfy there craving. When somebody cheats its a way of sort of breaking things off, but are too afraid to be alone so they stay in a relationship, but act in a single type of way. confusing but true. Hope I answered your question. Best regards.

Posted 2009-02-14T19:09:27Z
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You have to take the good with the bad and smile when you're sad.  Love what you've got and remember what you had.  Always forgive but never forget.  Learn from your mistakes but never regret.  People change and things go wrong.  Just remember...life goes on!!

I think many people cheat because they confuse love with infatuation.

LOVE is based on a gradual, understanding, confident, trusting and mature acceptance of one's imperfections...and not solely based on sex. Kiss

Whereas INFATUATION, on the other hand, is a fleeting, insecure, threatening, exciting, and eager sexual desire.Frown

With infatuation, the newness of the relationship fades quickly, accusations and fault-finding begins, and the partner once again has that unsatiated sexual desire to jump the fence, in search for greener pastures.

Love matures and is understanding.  A partner is warmed by his/her presence; and even distance does not separate you because you know he is yours and you can wait.  Love endures all things; and a marriage, with Christ at the center, will stand a much better chance of surving.  After all, God is love!! Kiss

I don't necessarily think a person falls out of love, per se.  I just think many actually never were really in love from the very beginning! 

 

Posted 2009-02-15T08:39:48Z
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