Yes I was ordered to pay child support. My ex-husband has his own business and alot of money. I know that doesn't exclude the fact that I have to do my part for the children but, how can the court do such a thing. He doesn't even allow me to visit the kids in Arizona or talk to them at all. How can I go about stopping or even lower my payments. We had five kids together. Why does he need money from me?, when he has all the money in the world?