I need help...I am so fed up with my mom's friends, my parents and even people on yedda telling me what to do with my life. I have my own set of morals and values that aren't going to change just because someone said, i should be a virgin. Why don't they understand you can not raise some one who has already been raised? Yes i understand they have my best interests in mind however is it really best interests when this advice you give is mentally damaging? Are you really correct just because you are older? My mom was not a virgin when she got married, my mom's friend was not a virgin. And yes i obviously realize that sex can get you pregnant. I have snuggled so much with the fact that i am not a virgin. And now they come to me when im 22 and tell me they are disappointed in me. I am 100% devoted to the united church and jesus. Practice what you preach people.
