My boyfriend and I moved to different countries for university lately, and it hasnt been that easy. Hes in boston, and im in canada, and it isnt that far, but we dont see each other all the time! and we have our different lives now. Before seperating we used to be so close, if any girl bothered me he wouldnt talk to her, just to prove to me that no one is as important to him as me, and i would do the same. Before seperating we talked about this whole long distance relationship, and he told me we cant be soo controlling over each other, because were going to have our own friends and groups, we have to trust each other, be honest , and most important thing is to love each other. We have been together for a year and 5 months now, (1 month in a haf doing the whole long distance thing) but i get soo bothered when i see him talking to other girls on facebook, or if i see him in pictures wid girls, or going to parties with them, im not used to this, because were always together, and we used to share the same friends before, so it wouldnt bother me if i saw him in pics wid my girl friends. He used to be really over protective, and now hes soo chill about everything, and im still soo jealous and sad when i see him with other girls, i dont know what to do! i know what hes doing isnt wrong, and i know he would never cheat on me, hes soo faithful its not even funny! but because of how i feel, its ruining this relationship!
sometimes i would see pics of him with other girls, when he told me hes goin out withe the guys, i feel he stopped telling me things now not to bother me.
i have to stop getting jealous , and being overprotective to keep this relationship going, but we fight when he hides things from me , and doesnt tell me.
Its just hard when we started a relationship in a certain way, and now it has to change becuase we dont live together, its hard..
help :(