Is it normal that I can't orgasm while having sex? Any ideas how I can? I usually fake it because I have only been able to cum during oral sex.
Treasure each other in the recognition that we do not know how long we shall have the pleasure of each other's company... Unless we plan, the night before, to be alive at dawn, you will not stir.
I have had the same problem. After talking about this with my female friends we concluded that most women are thinking too much about what is going on around them, such as: am I doing this right, or am I pleasing him, are my moves sexy, am I better than his last partner, did I turn the stove off, was that the kids...after this discussion, I had a talk with my man and he completely understood. The foreplay helps alot, and deep sweet kisses on my mouth, neck, and other places...I focused on the pleasure I was experiencing, not on all the other BS that occupies my mind all the other times of the day. This was MY TIME dammit and I was determined to enjoy it. No really, seriously, focus on the pleasure of each stroke, how good it feels to YOU. If he needs to slow down or speed up for your pleasure, tell him. Also position can help. If he is on top of you, have his body where his chest is almost in your face. The penetration hits one of your inner pleasure spots as well as the rubbing on your outer button. The pleasure is immense!!! I am 41 years old and I can now proudly say I have had several orgasms with him inside!!! WOW!!! Just be patient, talk it over with your partner and enjoy YOURSELF. Now go try it for yourself...keep your mind on how good it feels and go have fun!!!
Have your partner work a little harder. My wife and I have a deal, I satify her first and she blows my mind. Both of us are satisfied. Sex is NOT 50/50 it's 110/110%.
Give all you have to your partner and I will bet, you will get the same in return.
One sided sex seems like prostution.
Ken
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