OH this 56 year old woman know's the answer!  I didn't have an orgasm on my clitoris until I reached my early 40's.  Such a shame.  You have to find your G-spot.  If you don't know where it is, you can't tell him.  Lie on your back and insert 2 fingers toward your belly button.  You will feel a "patch".  It may be as small as a pea or as large (lucky you) as a walnut.  It may just feel like a "rough spot".  This is your G-spot.  Rub it slow or hard, (up to you) and you will reach climax.  If you feel like you have to urinate, keep going.... but slow down.  It will happen. 

I did not know this until I went to an adult party.  The Pure Romance lady explaned what to do.  I now have my man do what I want every single time.  What a difference!  I now tap him on the back at night, when I used to HATE that tap.

Good luck honey.  It's there, just find it!