How do I know if I have an orgasm? He asks me many times if I orgasmed, but I dont know. I'm guessing I do b/c I shiver real hard for a little and I have this odd feeling that I gently push him away with my feet on his shoulders. I just want to curl up and breath because my breath is usually hard to get at that moment, this happens many times with him. Twice he has caused me to faint. So, is that an orgasm??