what you should do to get a girlfriend is make the foundations and be friends first. ask her out for a drink with you and you mates and ask her for casual goings out, and then after that ask her out for a one on one dinner, take her home and see what happens. thats how to get one but ho to keep one is even more difficult but u might want to look at yanivs question about his gf there is a good answer by cloney wot u should look at.