What can I do in order to get a girl freind

i'd say the 3 most appealing things for women are

look confident

look interesting

and look fun

doesn't matter if it is in chess club or a rugby club, whatever you are interested in, if you look like you have these three qualitys you will have appeal.

and this way you will appeal to girls with the same kind of interests as you do.

do not doubt yourself my friend, you have appeal!

go for it tiger!!

I have to agree with HypnoFreak. I'd also like to add that a girl loves it when a guy is interested in what she's saying and not in her chest or other body part. Ask her questions about herself because that will get her comfortable and will also "break the ice."

I would say your having a bit of an issue here.As of now ,we don't know your age.That would give me alot to go on.If you are have dating problems I urge you to click the link I have provided and I can give you the best possible advice in this area.Thank you and I hope to be able to help you get a girl.

Hi Luz

Every relationship in the world is built on give and take. The healthiest and most satusfying ones are those who get the balance right and nobody is doing all the giving or all the taking.

Paradoxically, the best way to find a mate is to stop trying to find a mate and work on yourself, as the other answers have suggested.

There is nothing more attractive than a confident, self-assured person - regardless of physical appearance.  The opposite is also true - we all tend to shy away from needy, underconfident people - no matter how they look!

If you're not already involved in a sport or a hobby, find something that interests you and get involved. Don't sit on the sidelines - get stuck in! Volunteer for stuff. Put yourself out there!

Forget all about looking for a girlfriend - do this for you! In time, the right person will notice you.

 All the best

Mammy x

What age of a girlfriend fits to a man of 39?

what you should do to get a girlfriend is make the foundations and be friends first. ask her out for a drink with you and you mates and ask her for casual goings out, and then after that ask her out for a one on one dinner, take her home and see what happens. thats how to get one but ho to keep one is even more difficult but u might want to look at yanivs question about his gf there is a good answer by cloney wot u should look at.  

What step r u getting stuck at? Let me explain - as in many other things, getting into a relationship w/ a woman consists of steps, the actual "girlfriending" being the last step.
Step 1: meeting her
step 2: flirt and get her attracted to you enough for:
Step 3: close - which means either get her to go on a planned meeting with you then and there, tonight, or if no better option secure her phone #
Step 4: The date, or dates if required. Create more attraction, initiate physical contact: touching, then kissing, fondling, get her in heat.
Step 5: close the deal: willingly maneuver her into a situation where the two of you wil enjoy hot steaming sex.
Step 6 and beyond: decide whether you would like to maintain contact with this girl again, possibly leading to a relationship.

Each step requires a different set of capabilities/set of mind, and each step requires practice and more than a few strike-outs when you are starting out. So again, which step are you in now?

For example, if you are at step 1 - meeting here, this initially consists of you creating loads of situations for u to meet hot chicks, as suggested by others here: gym, hobbies (especially those with primarily women for example ballroom dancing if you are inclined to it or yoga or volunteering at pet shelters ...). Once you have the opportunities, you need to concentrate on the next sub-step which is the approach and so on.

Your question was very general hope I have helped you.

Just be yourself..Girls will like you the way you are..:)