How do I get over someone that is older than me?

How do I get over someone that is older than me and he's my mums' boss and he's been engaged for a year now and I've been told that he fances me and I love him but no one knows and people are saying that it is wrong because he only wants me for sex, what do I do about it?

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castaway109
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What do you really think he wants?  If he is engaged to someone else..... If someone else told you he fancies you or you know it?  How does anyone know what he really wants.  Just be careful...
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Learn some grammar!
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Shima
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Usually I am up for love even if it a bit forbidden ... In your case it seems like there are too many negative factors. Your mom is also involved and sometimes people do end up engagements but if it was something serious I think you would have noticed . Like castaway109 mentioned you need to be careful you wouldn't want to get your mom into this or somehow be the reason for his breakup. Something is wrong there and you should stay away.
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Lady Bird
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Trust no one and Respect is earned not given!!!!

First off if he is already engaged to someone else right there it  should show u that he can not be trusted...Then I would like to know what the age diffrence is???...U say he is older?..Don't get me wrong Iam 14yrs older than my husband...If U have to hide that U 2 are seeing each other then I would not to be with someone like that ....If no one knows that U are seeing each other than how can they tell U he only want's U for the sex?????....If I was U I would worry about your mom who might lose her job if this "thing" does not work out for U and her boss.....I say do not trust him he will tell U anything U want to hear ...so that way he can have U any way he wants in the sack!!! It sounds like U are young and are not wise of the world and the people in it yet ...so be very careful and as I always say " TRUST NO ONE "....Put what your heart and mind are saying to U togeather and U will find the answer U seek..A wise person listens to both the heart and mind togeather ...because one will say one thing and the other a diffrent thing...it is very hard to do but it can be done....Good Luck......Peace out...
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It sounds like you have been advised/ told to get over this older person. The point is do you? 

Try listing the reasons why you want to continue and then the reasons that you should "get over it" as you put it.

Now put all the reasons into one same list in order of most important first. Make sure you think properly about all the reasons in your list before deciding on a final order.

When you have decided on a final order, highlight the reasons that you would have to go against and think about the consecuences of doing this.

See what out weighs what and then go with that.

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