I am known for my, shall we say, lack of tact. It is VERY hard for me to do anything OTHER than speak my mind, but I find that typing replies to many of these questions has helped me learn a modicum of tact, as I keep having to remind myself not to answer what was not asked (even if I think their question is lacking) and not to offer an opinion as to what they SHOULD do, if that also was not requested.

Meanwhile, if you want to stop the notification of replies to your old questions, etc. I believe you may be able to go into 'Settings' and adjust some of the automatic system responses so you might check into that and see if it's doable.

And you're correct - I'm just 53 with only one grandchild; I've got a ways to go to catch up with you!