Dear JKGrandma, I think you have a lot of good points in regard to my letter, however the point I was really trying to get across is that most of these questions, have been on this site entirely too long.Then there remains a question as to why do I keep getting e-mails that there is a new response to a question I answered two years ago? Ludicrous! If I were to tell my Friends on-line to ask a question on (YEDDA) and they all responded, then there would be more than we could handle to answer and , guess what? They would all be new and refreshing. I think it is right that anyone who wants, may put a question on here, and even if the question seems absurd, doesn't really matter. There are people that love to answer those questions, so be it! After the question has been answered and the writer is satisfied, then take it off and make room for a new one.I have one on here from last year that needs to be removed and I shall do it as soon as I figure out how! I enjoyed your response and really admire your use of words, they make me seem like a boring jerk. I have yet to be bored as I can remember, nor am I tedious. I am a retired R.N. and have been a Nanny five times. I have three volunteer jobs and I also do stand up comedy; (that is when I can stand up) I just had my 18th Great Grandchild, and another on the way.This leaves a very small amount of time for boredom. Do you see any answers on here from Yedda? Probably won't as one of the staff still wants to know when Mozart died. Until he finds out and is happy with his answers, we will still be seeing his Question. I guess you are a Grama too, but you are a long way from 80YO, I would like to bet, so when you reach my age, perhaps you too will feel more free to speak your mind, than now. My Mother always taught me;"If you are thinking something worthwhile saying, just say it!" Thanks again for your kind words, and I guess I can say; they fell on deaf ear, because you guessed it, I am deaf. I thank GOD daily that I can see. Blessings, MJL