A nice dinner as a way to impress a woman on Yedda

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David DeAngelo

You’re basically saying that a man should “court” a woman by taking her out to nice places and paying for everything. You also seem to be saying that the man should chase the woman.

I used to act this way myself.

When I met a girl that I liked, I’d call her a lot, take her out to dinner, and chase after her.

What I never could understand is why when I acted this way women tended to RUN AWAY from me... instead of towards me. They would "play hard to get", not seem very interested, and often only like me as a "friend".

Later, as I began studying guys who were "naturally" successful with women and dating, I found something VERY interesting...

I found that most of the guys I met who were UNUSUALLY successful at attracting women DID NOT CHASE the women.

In fact, if anything, they were the ones who were "playing hard to get".

Of course, this confused me at first.

But what I've realized since is that when a man "courts" a woman, he's hinting that he's interested in a "long-term relationship"... or even marriage.

If the woman is also interested in marriage, what does she usually do?

Right, she turns up the heat, and makes the man REALLY work hard to "get her."

I mean, how else can she "be sure" that he's serious?

On the other hand, if a man DOES NOT do all of these typical "courtship" things, it changes everything.

And if the woman knows that the man is also able to attract OTHER women, it creates a
CHALLENGE in her mind.

This is why men who are dating several women are usually more interesting to women than men who have no dates.

Is my advice perfect, 100% of the time?

No way.

I teach guys how to be successful in the dating world, not in the marriage world.

If a guy really likes a woman, and he's interested in a "long-term relationship", then the
rules change a bit (but not that much).

Most women SAY that they want a man to chase them. But when it comes to the REAL WORLD, it usually doesn't play out this way.

If you chase a woman, she will usually run.

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