I agree with Skipton. I am a woman and I feel the same way a man does. If said to early, I would feel like I am being trapped. I too have dreaded visions of walking down an aisle. But it depends on the persons personality.  I feel like this when a man has feelings that develop faster than mine and when they come across as being needy right in the beginning of a relationship. But again, personality has a lot to do with it. First, find out if he has feelings for you. Second, Find out who he is first and then you will know what to do. Be your own person, Don't let him define who you are, let him compliment the person you are. Just as much as you should compliment him. Everything falls into place when two people agree with each others desires.  Don't be scared to let them be known.  Being honest and letting him know the truth now will make you happier and save you lots of time. If he doesn't feel the same don't force the issue. We can't force people to like us. Be yourself and people will adore you and you will find the ones that compliment you. Bring that confident gal that is inside of you, out for everyone to see.