I need your help on my horrible reoccuring dreams!

Recurrent dreams of this nature rarely come out of the blue. I would think that you have a lot of insecurity issues or there has been some behavior on his part to cause the question of his fidelity to come up.

Could you shed some light on this?

JayR

If you love him and trust him, you can share everything - your dreams, your hopes, your fears. Don't "confront" him, you will only put him on the defensive.  You need to start some honest communication, without that, there can be no lasting relationship.  He is probably not a good mind reader, and he won't know your inner thoughts and feelings unless you are willing to share...

Chances are, he loves you a lot more than you realize.

Also, face the facts. A lot of girls chase after men who are already taken, so your boyfriend is going to face some temptations. And so are you. These dreams are telling you about his temptations. Does he think you are running around with other guys? Those are the kinds of things you need to talk about at some point.

If nothing else, your dreams are telling you you need to talk to him about these issues.  Don't be afraid of the truth, and don't let that stop you from communicating.

First,  you must look at yourself. What are you doing before you go to sleep? Are you eatting? (1)If so, do not eat  4 hours before bedtime. If you must , eat something lite.  (2) Has any of your dreams come to pass? If not, than you need to speak to your boyfriend about your dreams. You need peace of mind.My  own dreams come to pass about 80%. I do not like it but I have no control over this.

Also, are you on any med's? This also makes your dreams wrost. Try to have a good night. When you go to bed, think of good things, it helps.

Hi, hope I can be of some help. First, think about these dreams, you might want to write each of them down. What are the similarities and are there any significant differences? That might be of some importance. Now, think of each thing and person in your dream that is of some significance and see yourself as that thing or person and how you feel as being that thing or person. Now, what are your feelings about each dream? Did you put yourself as your boyfriend cheating(could that be you)or have you thought about cheating on him?Be your really good friend, do you as her, flirt or do anything that would make you think of her cheating with your boyfriend? Also, have you been through a past relationship where a boyfriend cheated? Or, it could even be a member of your family that you really trusted and they broke your trust. I have found there are some people because of their baggage are more jealous or needless worriers. And then there are people who are just more instinctive in general and get or have a feeling about something and it ends up that it is true or there is just a tiny part of what you are thinking is true. Why even think to get so up in his face as to confront him?  Depending on the kind of man he is, might if confronted immediately tell you the truth or because you CONFRONT him, he might be lieing through his teeth and you have really ticked him off too and still don't have the answers you are looking for. Just be the woman we all can be and after you have made love and you are curled up partially on his chest then with all the fragility of a very fine piece of china sitting on the edge of a coffee table sort of purr and tell him the gist of your dreams and how it has made you worry so, if that doesn't work and depending on what he does or does not tell you then girlfriend you've got some serious checking up on him to do. If you can afford it hire a PI, all of this depends on just how much all of this is effecting your life and to what extent you are willing to go to. And dear, there are those men who can cheat and have whole other lives and by the time you find out, about the only thing you can do is walk away with what dignity you have left and do your best to forgive and then try to forget and get on with living because he's not going to stop living because you were hurt, and sadly no one else is either. A repeating dream can be worrisome. Hope it all works out and by now you are both just madly in love with "each other".

Dreams are reflections of our feelings, thoughts and awarenesses at the time of the dream.  Dreams of "another woman" is a common dream symbol, reflecting your feelings of being betrayed.  Recurring dreams are always about a waking life situation that started at the time that you first had the dream.  They reoccur because the waking life situation is either on-going or the issue was never addressed.  As you would "never suspect him" of cheating with another woman, consider what he might be doing differently (that started a year ago) that makes you feel as if he hs been "cheating" on you.  It might be the extra time he is spending at work, or with his (or your mutual) friends, or family, or hobbies, etc.  Whatever is taking his attention away from you, is making you feel cheated on.  The metaphor of "the other woman" is the most efficient way for your dreams to communicate that feeling to you.  The fact that your friends showed up in the most recent dream suggests that they may have gotten the kind of attention from him that you want, and it's making you feel cheated on.  Want to make the dream go away?  Share it with our boyfriend.  If he cares, as he should, it's likely to make him more sensitive, resulting in him showing you the kind of attention you want and deserve.  Again, this is a common dream.  You can read a lot more about "cheating" dreams at www.dreamdoctor.com, which features credible information about dreams based on the largest database of dreams in the world.  Good luck!