I am so sorry you have to go through so much just to survive. I am helping a friend with ms pay for a wheel chair and there is a lot of help you just have to search them out.  Here are some suggestions:  The Clark Howard show has volunteers that offer advice for free, just google the Clark Howard show, the Easter Seals has a way to set up a web page to fundraise through their site.  Find you local LDS aka Mormon church, there are always willing to help and you may be referred to a member of the church that is a lawyer.  Good luck and God bless.