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I need a guys point of view!! Why doesnt he ask me out??

( i suggest you guys read the last question i posted, that way you'll get the picture) Ok so ive been talking to this guy for a while 3 yrs on and off and we went out, it was officially girlfriend boyfriend. but we broke up and didnt see eachother for a while, so we recently started talking like last year in october so its been like 4 months already and he hasnt asked me to be his girlfriend! He shows me that he loves me and he tells me that he loves me but something is holding him back. I had the best valentine day with him this weekend and OMG he showed me that he loved me! it was the best day of my life. But i just dont understand why hes holding back! He even told me that he was planning on asking me out on valentines day, but he just couldnt do it. =[ advice please!!WHAT SHOULD I DO?! =[


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 Be honest and be true to yourself.

Hope,

    I'm not a man but I think your boyfriend has another girlfriend somewhere else or he has misgivings about his relationship with you.

    If you really want to know, why don't you have a talk with him and ask him what's going on?  People on Yedda can only guess.Foot in mouth

Posted 2009-02-17T15:24:14Z
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I think that he either doesn't want to be in a relationship, wants to keep his options open or has a girl and doesn't know what he really wants. I think that you should take it slow and do your own things. Don't show it bothers you that he hasn't asked you out or anything and observe and analyze him. See how he acts and find out more about him. This will let you know if he is seeing someone else besides you or is talking to someone, ect. Be careful and I suggest not being intimate with him until you are officially his girl.

Posted 2009-02-17T16:34:46Z
 
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Do not mistake majority for truth!

I'm guessing he is getting everything a man wants from a woman without comitting. Don't waste your time on him if he shows you his love but still can't be open and honest then it isn't love.

Posted 2009-02-18T01:44:04Z
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I don't mean to answer a question with a question but more info is needed for sound advise, like why did you and him break up? Was he hurt badly? If so he likely does not want to be hurt like that again and if his trust in you was broken it will take a long time to regain that trust.

On another note, you say he shows and tells you he loves you, but you did not say that you love him. Do you love him? Do you show and tell him that you love him? If the answer is no to either one or both of those questions you have your answer.

                                                                                        Dale

Posted 2009-02-20T14:49:15Z

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