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"this is moving fast"

What does it mean when you are together with a woman and she says “this is moving fast”? Is this is bad thing?

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If you're getting "hot and heavy" with a woman you ...



If you're getting "hot and heavy" with a woman you've just met, and she starts saying things like "I don't do this kind of thing with someone I just met" or "this is moving fast" it doesn't mean that she's not enjoying it! And it also doesn't mean she wants to stop.



Often, women just aren't used to getting physically involved with a guy so quickly, and their self image is telling them that this is unusual.

If you want to make light of the situation, just stop kissing and say "OK, well then let's just be friends". After she opens her mouth with a shocked look, then KISS her again.

When you hear a woman say "this is moving very fast", just realize that you're doing the RIGHT things, not the wrong things. "I don't usually do stuff like this with someone I've just met" usually translates into "But I'm about to do it now".

IMPORTANT NOTE: If a woman ever asks you to stop, pushes you away, or indicates that she does not want to continue directly, then by all means stop. Never force yourself on a woman. If you do, you're a dumb ass and deserve all the love and affection you'll be getting from BUBBA, your new penmate.
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Most of the time, Yes.  Most of the time they are really saying, I need things to slow down a little please. 

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She might be coming out of another relationship that she has not let go of yet. she days 'this is going too fast' because she has not gotten over her feelings for someone else. if you really like her, give her the space. if it is just for sex, find someone else. she is probably hurt from the last one, and she is scared.

on the other hand, she might still be involved with him, and you are the one who can break them apart.

regardless, good luck.

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It could mean a few things DM66.I've been in the same compromising position and have valuable  information for you if you would follow the link provided.Thank you for your time and I hope to talk with you soon

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It means she's feeling pressured and that you should back off and apologize for coming across too strong - hopefully it wasn't deliberate and she'll appreciate that you're listening to her - let her set the pace.
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Hi,

   If you hear a woman say you're moving too fast means that she is not ready for any sexual relations.  She wants to know you a lot better before getting involved. 

   You need to respect her and don't force her to do anything that she is uncomfortable doing  at this time.
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