Please help...I've been dating my boyfriend for a few years on and off... He decided to move out of his moms house last month and asked me to move out with him...young and in love I decided to do so. Its been a month and I've notice he's been a down & a little cold hearted towards me. I just recently pulled his teeth to get a response on how he was feeling. I asked if he was happy and his response was NO..& I asked why..he simply stated that he's been stressed with work and some court issues he's been going through....then I asked him if he was happy living with me..and his response was " its not what I thought it would be." and that he's not comfortable....of course he couldn't explain his comments enough for me to understand why. Then I asked him if he was still in love with me and he said "i love you."..apparently he wasn't able to give me the response I wanted which was "yes J , I am madly inlove with you". He just said he loved me but doesn't know if he's still IN LOVE with me anymore. But then stated "don't worry I'm not going to leave you high and dry I want to help you with the bills". Once he saw how distraught I became and started telling him all the things I've done for him and how I stopped my life for him he said I'm going to stay...but I don't want him to feel obligated to stay bc he feels sorry for me...Now he acts like nothing ever happened..I've just been ignoring him & go straight to sleep when I get home....what do I do?? The lease is under my name and I have no where to go..I left my family for him. I can barely make all the payments on my own, I will probably be living check to check. Do you think he just needs his time because he's not use to living without his mom?? I mean he lived in the same house for 27 years of his life, he was born there!..does he need time to adjust? I'm just tired of trying to make excuses.
