What do i do when im the mistress

He is playing you for a fool, he isn't married to the girlfriend and so if he felt as strongly about you as you do him he would end the other relationship. Also do you really want a guy that would sneak away and call someone else?

There is a saying "If he'll do it with you, he'll do it to you"

You are so being played!

If someone can't break up with someone - thats such a red flag..  Seriously!  You can't win him over, there is nothing you can do to do that because he is already in a relationship and "Close to loving you" (What is that?)... He can't break up with his current gf just yet.... The man has a big L on his forehead...

Move on.

Be strong and finish it with him.  If he really loves you then he will realise that he needs you in his life and he will be forced to make a decision.

best of luck

If you don't want to get hurt, the best thing you can do is stay away from men who have a g/f or are married. Chances of him leaving her for you are very, very slim. A man can say whatever he likes but the reality is in his actions. He is still with his g/f..which means he probably has no intention of leaving her. He calls you while she is around..so you know he can't be trusted. You have put yourself in a bad position and should get out now. Better to end it sooner than later because you are setting yourself up for disappointment and a lot of hurt.

You are asking the question so you know what to do . Stop letting him make a fool of you .

 Word to the wise, You have been given a lot of good advice so take it and run, this guy is playing games he has his cake and he's eating it too. I like the saying if (he'll do it with you ,he'll do it to you). I know that you care for him and it is not easy letting go, but in the long run you'll be glad you did.

take care.

First of lol don't want to be mean but you shouldn't be involved with a guy who has a girl.  You should have respect and the same goes for him.  He he wanted to be with you he would leave his girl but he isn't.  So he is playing you!  See I don't want to be mean but I'm honest and straight up I can't stand girls like you who try to come between someone else's relationship.  So that's messed up!!!

YOu should really try to figure out why you're excepting this from this guy. My guess is you have low self esteem. Maybe you can talk to a therapist , make sure they are a good one. Ask around to find a good one.