I like to set short term goals and long term ones. I find that when I work diligently towards the short term ones then I am more likely to achieve the bigger more long term goals. Each day is a new opportunity to work on yourself. One thing that I have recently realized is that I need to work on loving myself in order to expect others to do the same. I am taking it one day at a time and with some help of my adoring husband I think that I have made a lot of progress.