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I met my boyfriend online....

I met my boyfriend online and still haven't met him. It's been 4 years since we started to email/instant message each other and he wants to come see me. He is 22 and I just turned 17. What do I do? I don't think am good enough for him. I love the way I look, but sometimes think that he wants a skinny girl instead of a curvy one. He says he loves me no matter what, but I don't completely believe it. Is it stupid of me to believe everything he says? Did I make a complete mistake by talking to him online in the first place?


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riddler
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I am your worst nightmare. An intelligent smart arse.

you need to turn your computer off, start studying and meet someone your own age. he needs to get his arse busted and thrown in jail.

and no don't beleive a darn word he says, he is a predator, probably 40 years old and mentally unstable.

wake up and join the real world.
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OronD
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Love is the battery of life....

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Riddler gave you an excellent answer (credited him with 2 thumbs up).  You don't know him and he might be totally different from what he says he is.....  Please please please be extremely carefull and suspecious !!!  you might play with explossives without even knowing it..... On the other he might be an honest guy.....  If you have the feeling that he is OK go and meet him (Take extra precautions: Meet him in a bublic place, a friend is nearby, your phone with you, and some alarm on you).  Even if you find out that he is OK go slowly slowly untill you feel secured.
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angelkiss
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Fool me once,

shame on you!!

Fool me twice,shame on me!

First,don't trust anybody on the internet!You have no idea who he is are what he's capable of!You are underage and he may like"little girls"

I hope you didn't give him your address!Just remember,we are all not what we seem,meaning that we can all lie,about our ages,our jobs..etc.

Something like this happened here in Greece,a 14 year old[who wasn't too happy at home]trusted this guy on the internet,he told her that he was 25,when in fact he was 35!She saved money and came to see him,he

took her to his home and video taped her having sex with him and sold it on the internet!he was caught and thrown in prison!Please,be careful and NEVER and i mean NEVER meet anyone from the internet,alone!If you do really want to see him,make sure there is an adult with you! 
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i would not advise to meet this guy.  there are a lot of  problems with meeting someone on line.  one, do you really know how old this guy is?  i would try meeting guys from school.  you know who you are dealing with then.
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Shima
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Hi,

I am going to give you a slight different perspective. I think the beauty about meeting a person online is that both people start at an equal position. There is no importance to  physical traits . You get to know the person the way he is . Assuming he really is what he says he is.  I met a guy online once and it was a beautiful relationship, some people even get married after meeting online.I am sure you are aware of the other side of online meetings like mentioned in the remarks before me.

You two have been talking for 4 years now thats a long period of time. You are young though and i am sure your life will be filled with relationships , even off line ones. I think , if you really trust the guy you might want to meet up in a safe public place which you know, during daytime . See how it goes , see if he really looks like 25 old men you know. See if he is interested, if he has been writing you for 4 years now then you should know many details about him. Ask him some stuff from about things he wrote you. Meet up a couple of times before ever going to his house . You'll then feel if you are good enough for him.

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