I messed up big time!! please help!!

What was she thinking?  If you just set there I would of been upset or thought you didn't care. I would talk to her and ask her if you should move on and if so. Do it with dignity.

You Messed Up?

Whoever it was who messed with your girl while you were in her company, took a big chance. This is risky business. Of course, you had to reject him. But isn't it possible that your girlfriend was flirtatious and invited that intrusion? Why else would she want a stranger buy her a drink?

You better move on! She ain't worth fighting for.

I think you should have stepped up in the very beginning -and told her you did not like what was going on. It would have then been her choice to continue OR respect you feelings.

Your girlfriend was disrespectful of you all night. 1st of all she was excepting drinks from another man, 2ndly she was letting him touch her and etc. 3rdly she tells you how sorry she is, but then sends you home and she, what, stayed there? Your girlfriend has a drinking problem at best. I say do not call her.

well if she accepted the drinks from the guy and let him touch her and was bein flirtatious with him then she has a problem especially if she was doin it in front of u then sent u home for bein upset about it.......... but u really should have confronted her about it at the begining..........if she has done this b4 u should get rid of her cause she is likely to do it again if u r there or not

I agree with some of the things said here but it's also possible that she was testing you to see if you even care that the guy was coming up to her. Sometines it's a way for us girls to get a clearer picture of the guy's feelings. Not the best way but very persice.

Ask yourself: Why didn't I interfiere from the start? Maybe you really don't care enough to be with her?

Your GF should have and could have taken care of the problem with this guy immediately but she choose not to . Any self respecting woman would have . Her ALLOWING this guy to put his hands all over her ,showed you that she does not respect you, the relationship , or herself . I would kick her to the curb .

Sorry to say your girlfriend is a little slut. Good for you knocking his ass down. Shows your no whimp. Don't look at it a you messed up because you didn't - she did. She definetly sounds like she's an embarrasement to you when she is drinking (or maybe she is straight too). Get rid of the bitch and move on.