I have to agree with Elden and LadyDoc: we don't have enough information to work on. As you can dump a screen name at will, there is no problem talking about private things, because we'll never meet directly.
To get the discussion started, I suffer from Terminal Paronomasia -- the dreaded Punsters' Affliction: three editors have told me that if I crack off with yet another wretched pun, they're going to lynch me.
There is a treatment group for punsters called Punsters' Unanimous . . . certainly you have heard of P. U.
