What men want

I once asked a group of my male co workers and friends that very same question many years ago, and here what they said: 1. Always conduct yourself as a lady, men like to open doors, see that you are seated in a restaurant, help you with your coat arriving or departing. 2. Looks after her personal hygiene, keep those fingers and toes, and feet free of chipped nail polish, remove dead skin from your heels and elbows 3. Ages well, 4. Open with her feelings, 5.No lies please,6. Be able to converse intelligently,7. Someone whose not clingy and respects his

space. 8.Be a real life love partner 9. Be a straight talker, 10. Save the skeltons in your closet for when and if the relationship moves to a closer level. 11. Don't gossip or tell all of the bad issues you had with previous lovers. 12. Be a straight talker. 13. Don't just spend his money, spend yours on him as well. 14. Don't keep him waiting or finish you bidet in the car. I'm sure they told me more but, that's all I can remember for now...good luck in your pursuits.

Wow the age old question!  Women are always trying to figure out what men want, so what better source to tell you than men!  Someone asked the same question on GirlsAskGuys.com and here is what the men said:

• Every guy has a different taste and every guy is different in some way, but there are some touch lines and virtues that all normal guys look for in girls. I read it in a book.
  
  1. She has to be able to sexually fullfill her man
  2. She has to have a need to nurture, sustain and look after
  3. She has to be accepting and reasonable
  4. She has to have a good sense of humor
  5. She has to have good manners and high moral principles
• First of all every guy is different (just like girls) but there is one thing all guys like: looks. If you want to get a date for sure, be super hot.
  
  As far as how non-super hot do you gotta be to be dateable, that changes depending on the guy. Some guys don't mind dating girls who are less good looking but more "whatever other characteristics they really like." So if you're like an 8 looks-wise, but not really nice, he might much rather go with a 7 who is nice. Also, we usually end up playing in our league, so if you're about as good looking as he is, its cool.
  
  Every guy has a standard where they usually won't go for a girl who is less than X good looking. The x is a higher or lower number depending on the guy.
  
  For behavior and stuff just being normal and nice is surprisingly hard to find. Funny always helps. Not being a b**** is a must, but some guys put up with it if you're hot. Don't do annoying sh**, or talk about your cats and other shit guys just do not ever want to listen to. Well, talking about some typical girly sh** is fine (you liked The Notebook, you had a great time doing something with your girlfriends last night, etc) just don't overdo it.

Hi,
What males are looking (above all) is: Friendship and appreciation.  If you haven't found a man, who truly appreciates you, and who you can fall in love with, that only means that you didn't find the right man until now..... Keep on searching, don't lose hope, and one day (hope it will be very soon) you will find it.  
Best regards,

I want a woman who can love me as much as I can love her! I want her to appreciate me the way I appreciate her. How hard is that?

Men really aren't all that complex. When you find the one you will know it.  And when it happens, you will want to always look good for him, be nice and do  nice things for him,etc. I think when you find someone you really love all these things just come natural. I been with the man of my dreams for 2 years and still cook for him, clean , get my hair & nails done and always try to look good for him, buy him things, make him feel appreciated, tell him I love him everyday,etc. It comes natural when you are in love.