I don't know. That is not a question I can answer ..something about human nature, something about the limits of our rationality. Either way, my own heart aches have made me very rational and very practical. I want a stable, strong, wealthy guy who can support me. Here is a link if you feel the same way:
http://factoidz.com/top-10-ways-to-meet-and-date-wealthy-successful-men/