When a man finds his woman he does not fall again except into her arms over and over.
When a woman finds her man she does not fall again except into his arms over and over.
If one finds themselves wandering aimlessly into the depths of sexual fantasy or desire then most assuredly no-one will save them. However, that being said from one who has traveled the world in both directions thrice, when you look into the eyes of the one, your Soulmate, your lover there is nomore wandering, only satisfaction.
Let us be honest here, how much difference, with exception of body fat and esthetics is there amongst one man/woman and another???????
It is basically the same outcome, with the exception that when the outcum is right the situation is right.