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Why do men fall out of love sometimes?

I always wonder why do people fall out of love, my uncle left her wife for a younger brunette, my cousin was abandoned by her 5yr boyfriend just 3 weeks before they get married. I just wonder why these people chose to love their partners from the very start but leave them in the end. What do you think is the reason why? 


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The lines are drawn in the sand, the American people are alive and awake, well most anyway.
Kick it and call names, Let the Freedom Ring

When a man finds his woman he does not fall again except into her arms over and over. 

When a woman finds her man she does not fall again except into his arms over and over.

If one finds themselves wandering aimlessly into the depths of sexual fantasy or desire then most assuredly no-one will save them.  However, that being said from one who has traveled the world in both directions thrice, when you look into the eyes of the one, your Soulmate, your lover there is nomore wandering, only satisfaction.

Let us be honest here, how much difference, with exception of body fat and esthetics is there amongst one man/woman and another???????

It is basically the same outcome, with the exception that when the outcum is right the situation is right.

Posted 2009-08-01T01:00:21Z
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I believe the issue is largely cultural. In the US we are extremely narcissistic and self absorbed. We are extremely materialistic and disposable society; nothing lasts, objects are built to last only a few years before "outdated." Just as are relationships. If one doesn't work, go out and get a new one.

It is a spiritual crises and lack of commitment.

We haven't yet learned; love is more than a feeling, its an action. Feelings wax and wane, flights of fancy, a moment of hunger, need, etc.

Real love is not always fun but it survives. Think of the love you have for a child. There are many different types of love.

Posted 2009-08-07T21:52:05Z
 
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Men and Women do not fall out of love they just think that the grass is greener on the otherside when it really is not. People get real comfortable and this is when the relationship gets boring. Men and Women leave a relationship that they had 80% of what they wanted in search of the other 20% and they are left with only 20%. 

Posted 2007-12-03T22:41:47Z
 
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I think all people not just men, are guilty of speaking the language of love when it is something more like lust, or need or comfort.  Love is a word only.  To me, there is always signs, yet the other participant might be so blinded by their emotions, they can't see that it is not completely shared emotion.  If a man or woman walk away from a relationship without a sign, or shared thoughts of discontent, they are cowards and possibly somewhat cruel.....those folks can GO.  The person left behind will be hurt, confused, devastated but in the long run, the person who left them did them a huge favor and they can move on to find a true companion.  Life is too short and lessons are hard learned.  Good luck in your search for love, respect and a true companion in life.  It does happen and those who find it are blessed.

Posted 2009-06-22T19:28:04Z
 
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This could be a number of reasons, and all depends on the circumstances.....

1. They may have found someone else to love...

2. They may have fell in love too quickly and realised that the person they thought they loved had changed maybe...or

3. Maybe they think the grass is greener on the otherside...I know that is an old saying but sometimes I think people feel trapped in a stable relationship, they are very restricted to do what they please when they please.......

At this day and age we are certainly living like days of lives..... I hope this helps.

Posted 2007-10-25T03:30:56Z
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What ruines many relationships is the stability and routine the get into after a certain time. Routine is what makes us less excited and sometimes even bored. It's funny because humans need routine to feel secure but sometimes the minute they reach it they can't stand it. In my opinion it's important to keep a relationship full of excitements in order to keep it long lasting .

Posted 2007-10-25T08:41:28Z
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Because they don't know what they want and woman are not telling the truth. I did learn my lesson and I would never going to fall in love again. I honestly recomend to love yourself first ,do what you want , if you like to dance go do it , if the person doesn't like the way you dress, too bad be yourself don't change for no one is not worth it.

Posted 2007-10-27T12:10:36Z
 

I am on my second marriage and I have only been married a year. I have been with the same man for 4 yrs. We were so much in love...During those years there were fights about how I raised my daughter and now only being married a yr. he said he doesn't love me like he use to because of all the fights  we have had...Sorry I can't help you much, because I don't understand how men can fall out of love so fast and for the stupidest reasons....

Posted 2007-10-28T01:56:18Z
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