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What makes a woman refuses to have sex with her husband for a long time if they don't hate each other?
Have fun, but be safe, use a condom!
Low sexual desire is a common problem in women. There are many ways to try to increase sexual desire in a relationship so that this problem does not cause conflict in a relationship, but it is also important to try to understand what has caused it, as it might be solvable. There are many factors that can cause a low sexual desire in women: Age, Menopause, hormone deficiency, pain during sex, childhood events, depression, anxiety, stress, medications or drugs, weight, body image, habituation to one's partner and unresolved relationship issues. Depending on the causes of low sexual drive, different therapies will apply. Both partners are encouraged to explore more exciting forms of sexual play and genital stimulation. Treatment is also aimed at relieving the tension between partners, removing stressful factors, or changing medications. The couple should make sure that they work through any relationship problems. Making sure there is effective communication in the relationship may solve part of the problem. Other treatments are the use of sensate focus, masturbation, and sometimes Kegel exercises are recommended. One of the most basic therapies used to help the partner who is experiencing the low sex drive is to encourage sexual self-exploration. That person is instructed to follow the seven-step model illustrated below in privacy with soothing music playing in the background. Since women are more likely than men to have low sexual desire, the seven steps are discussed from a female perspective. 1. Look at her own body (in private, perhaps after bathing) 2. Feel her body 3. Touch parts that feel arousing 4. Try to get sexually aroused 5. Extended masturbation until orgasm 6. Male watches her masturbate 7. Male imitates her techniques This technique along with the other treatments may help to increase a woman's sexual desire. It is also important to make sure that the individual is not on a medication that decreases sexual desire. Check with a physician to see if hormonal imbalances could be involved: A simple blood test is all that is needed.
best of luck to you both.
Lack of sexual desire is usually the main reason. It really has nothing to do with her partner but more an issue with herself. There are many reasons woman lose their desire for sex..many Sexpert already stated. Personally,I believe a woman should want to please her man sexually even if she has no sexual desire..she may end up getting aroused if she is willing to give it a chance and also if he isn't getting it from his partner he may end up getting it elsewhere..just my opinion.
stress not talking to each other one blameing the other one for everything. life not happy work kids sick there are lots of things hope this helps.
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