Walk away and count to 10.  Remember we aren't perfect. And yell at your husband instead. (that one helps me a lot) Also it's cool that when you do yell to say I am sorry.  Let them know you are human.  But my fav is yelling at hubby! Also remember you can't be supermom all the time.  Just when you aren't be big enough to say I'm sorry. Mommy didn't mean to hurt your feelings.  That way when the are older and they hurt your feelings they can find it easier to say I am sorry. Say I am sorry and hug them.  You are only human.  Forgiveness plays a big role in our lives. It's time to let them in on it.