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what does it mean when your husband tels you he doesn't want to be with you because of the things you have done and said. but try and have hope that our marriage works out?


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Turn off the television and teach your children how to think.

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I'm a little confused. Do you mean your husband said he doesn't want to be with you BUT he also said you should hope your marriage works out?

If so, then I think it might mean that he is angry and sad and disappointed in what's happened between you. And those feelings lead him to think he doesn't want to be with you any more, but deep down he wants your marriage to work out so he's not quite ready to call it quits.

Since you don't give specifics, the best I can suggest is that you might consider giving marriage counseling a try. (If he doesn't want to go, you should go to counseling without him.) It can't hurt; might help!

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i think you should seat down and talk to him and try to make thing right Undecided

 
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Sometimes, our conscience is at war against things others have done to us.  If you analyze, evaluate and continually think about injustices done to you, your heart will become fragmented.  Your attitude will become critical.  Your peace will become compromised.  It does not have to be that way.  THE HOLY SPIRIT SOLVES EVERY INNER TURMOIL.  6 Facts About Peace:  1) THE FRUIT OF THE HOLY SPIRIT IS PEACE.  "But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, gentleness, goodness, faith, Meekness, temperance: against such there is no law", (*Galatiains 5:22-23)  You see, His Prensence brings peace.  When you obey His instructions, a calmness will enter your spirit.  The greatest warfare of your life is The Holy Spirit versus your flesh and self.  "For the flesh lusteth against the Spirit, ant Spirit against the flesh: and these are contrary the one to the other: so that ye cannot do the things that ye would,"(Calatians 5:17)

When you permit the leadership of The Holy Spirit in your life, you will enter the most remarkable and unforgettable season of calm and inner Peace you could imagine.  2)DIVINE PEACE IS MUCH DIFFERENT THAN A PASSIVE ACCEPTANCE OF LIFE.  -Man cannot give this Peace. -Popularity does not create this kind of Peace. -Wealth cannot produce this Peace. -Counselors cannot produce this kind of Peace.  -A Loving Mate does not produce this kind of Peace.  3) UNCOMMON PEACE IS A GIFT FROM AN UNCOMMON GOD.  "Anad the peace of God, which passeth all understanding, shall keep your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus,"(Philippians 4:7) 4)  WHEN YOU FOCUS ON THE HOLY SPIRIT, YOUR MIND BEGINS TO GROW AND BECOME THE MIND OF CHRIST.  "For to be carnally minded is death; but to be spirituallly minded is life and peace,"(Romans 8:6).  5) WHEN THE HOLY SPIRIT BECOMES YOUR FOCUS, THE STORM BEGINS TO SETTLE IN YOUR MIND.  You enter the rest He promised.  "This is the rest wherewith ye may cause the weary to rest; and this is the refreshing:  yet they would not hear," (Isaiah 28:12)  6) THE HOLY SPIRIT MUST BECOME YOUR FOCUS BEFORE YOU EVER EXPERIENCE TOTAL AND CONTINUOUS PEACE.  "Thou wilt keep him in perfect peace, whose mind is stayed onThee:  because he trusteth in Thee,"(Isaiah 26:3).  The Word of God is the instrument of Peace for The Holy Spirit to use.  "Great peace have they which love Thy law: and nothing shall offend them,"(Psalm 119:165).  -When The Word of God is sown continuously in your hear, it grows a Harvest of Peace.  -When The Word Of God dominates you mouth, it dominates your Mind.  -When The Word Of God dominates your Mind, it controls your conduct and Behavior.

YOU MUST EMBRACE THE WORD OF GOD AS THE MOST EFECTIVE INSTRUMENT FOR CHANGE. that is why Paul wrote Timothy, "All scripture is given by inspiration of God, and is profitable for doctrine, for reproof, for correction, for instruction in righteousness:  That the man of God may be perfect, throughly furnished unto all good words," (2 Timothy 3:16-17). The Holy Spirit inspired the Scriptures.  _The Holy Spirit affects your words.  _The Holy Spirit uses The Word of God to bring PEACE into your heart.  Do not throw it away.  Do not treat it lightly. 

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Cool Equal justice for All

The law works but the system needs changed, We all abide by the law but sometime it failes us. The same with the goverment. God bless the USA, Brign our troops HOME safely, To the men who did not get the credit they deserve, MAY GOD WATCH OVER OUR SERVICE MEN.

To a great degree ( he doesn't want to be with you because of the things you have done and said ) he has a different opinion than you do. But as to what you have done is a wide open Question. If he was with you at this time and he knew what you did or said why does this even matter at any time as at your age the past is not a question that should be a factor. Or possable his way of getting out of this marrage??????????D-I-V-o-R-C-E ?????????

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