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How do I manage my huge sex drive

I am a woman of 34 and recently had my 3rd baby. I was also sterilised as I dont want any more children. Other than other women my age and close friends I never seem to get tired of having sex. I am always in the mood and I think my husband is getting irritated with me. Even if I am so tired of our small baby keeping us awake i always want to have sex. Why is it that after 3 children, being a career women and housekeeper I still have this huge sex lust. Is something wrong with me??? I find myself getting so cross when my husband is tired and doesn't want to have sex. In most cases this is the other way round for most people. I feel bad feeling this way....please could you advise me on what I should do, and how I should handle these emotions.


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I think you need to go to your gynocologist and get a thorough exam.  He needs to check your hormone levels because it sounds like you may be producing too much testosterone, which increases libido and can cause anger and irritability.  The doctor may be able to get those levels adjusted so that you are more in control.

Posted 2009-11-12T13:21:06Z
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I disagree. Each of us has a natural sex drive and rhythm. Yours is just high. My natural rhythm is sex once or twice a day, I've been fortunate enough in my life to match up with partners whose sex drive eqielled mine. I can't imagine only having sex once or twice a week. I'd go insane and feel very unwanted. Your husband's sex drive is just lower than yours. That's not your responsibility to fix, Nor is it his. You're both where you're supposed to be. As far as fixing it, well, get a good vibrator and have at it. Not as good as, but it will help.

Most men have fantasies about finding women like you. But the reality is that most m,en's sex drives aren't up to that frequenmcy. I am, but I found over the years that I have a very high sex drive. Just the way I was made.

Posted 2009-11-13T20:06:07Z
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The use of a vibrator is a good idea as well as seeing a doctor, but another thought is to try getting rid of some of that sexual energy through rigorous exercise?

We encourage our teens to run and practice sports endlessly.  It might help you also.

Posted 2009-11-14T23:20:23Z
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