"making a move" on the first date

Did you know that women HATE when a guy they are attracted to DOESN’T make a move?

Yes… in some cases you can use this to build anticipation and make her want you more… but eventually you MUST take the initiative and make something happen.

When a woman is really into a guy and he doesn’t try to sleep with her, it makes her feel LESS ATTRACTIVE.

She also worries that YOU might not have the confidence to make a move… which makes YOU look less attractive.

Combine these two things together and the result is not good.

Remember this:

She IS NOT going to do it for you.

Alex put it very well when he said, “If YOU take off a woman’s pants, she feels sexy… but if she has to take off HER OWN pants, she feels like a slut.”

Which option do you think a woman would rather take?

Now… just because you make a move does not mean she’s going to give in and sleep with you on the first night.

But she definitely wants you to TRY.

So don’t let her down. Don’t be a wuss. Make a move!

I have to disagree with David.

On a first date, the only moves you should be making is opening doors and pulling out a chair. At the end of the evening, assuming you had a good time, tell her so and give her a small peck on the cheek. Trying to swap spit on the first night only makes you look like a horny litte boy. If she's enjoyed the evening with you, she'll be looking forward to another evening, which is then the time to make your move.

IF you want to lose her yes.

Making a move on the first date is not good.  Some women view this as lack of respect on them.  Decent women don't like a man to make a move right away.  They want to find out if there is chemistry there and so it takes 4  or 5 times before one would know a lot more about the other person.

    I would be uncomfortable if a man made a move on the first date.  And possibly not to see  the other person anymore.

no always keep your hands to yourself unless you ask to hold her hand.. she will respect you alot more and want you to be a gentleman. she wants to be treated with respect not rudeness

No man.

No man can move with out her .. yes this is true. any one can stay with her what ever the time he is getting.

thanks

Spas