Why does he get so mad??

Hi Confused Girl

I know you love him but I think he is taking advantage of you and you bend over backwards to please him and he does not appreciate you at all.  You either need to try and stand your ground and tell him that is how you are and if he loves you, he cannot get mad about it, or you need to walk away and I have a feeling he will only then realise how good he had it when you were around!

good luck

you should not have to go through this kind crap kick his sorry little a_ _ to the curb and find a man that can appreciate you .he's got the problem not you get on to better thing's girl you desearve better.good luck confused.

confused if he truely loves you he would not go to his homegirls and tell them how he feels instead of telling the person hes with...  hes looking out for himself and not your feelings...

I feel a little stronger about the need for you to tell him "later" and get out before you are married and have a child that will be affected by his taking things out on you. You say he gets mad at you for "no" reason which would indicate that he is taking out his stress, anger, etc. on you and then going and talking to some other girl once he has dumped on you. Please don't that you need to work harder and harder to make him happy because treating you this way is NOT okay. Take care, find someone who will put into you what you put into him and God Bless.