What to do with a lying husband

My husband all of the sudden didn't want me to touch him.  No hugs, no kisses, wouldn't even tell me goodnight.  This went on for 2 weeks.  I kept saying what's wrong, is there someone else?  I finally checked his cell phone records and discovered a number that he would call over and over.  Before work, on his way home and any time I was at work.  I called it and it was another woman.  She of course lied to me and said she didn't know my husband he must be talking to her boyfriend.  Well, after 2 hours of telling him I'm not stupid, he admitted to talking to her and that she was just a friend.  He didn't want to tell me her name or how he met her, but finally gave me a name and said he works with her.  Well, I called the factory and no one knows her.  So with 2 more weeks of questioning, he finally tells me that he worked with her in the past and ran into her at Wal-Mart, but still says they were only friends and he will never speak to her again.  I decided after he finally came clean about who she was that I wanted to talk to her.  I wanted her story to see if he was telling the truth.  She has changed her cell number.  What do I do now??


Answer this question
Share Send to a friend Watch Report
 
 

4 Posted Answers
Order by

 
9202 answers
2583 helpful answers

Turn off the television and teach your children how to think.

Ma Kettlesnots S.N.O.T.S., Inc.

_______________________________________________

*I do not respond in the "Comments" section.*

H.A.G.S. Unite!

 

See an attorney to discuss your legal rights and responsibilities.

See a doctor to get tested for AIDS and STD's.

If you still want to stay with your husband (I wouldn't, but that's up to you) then you will have to lay down some ground rules: No lies, no communication with this woman and immediate marriage counseling. Any broken promises and it's the end, no second chances.

If you're tired of the nonsense, boot his butt out and move on with your life but stick him for support and whatever else the attorney says you're entitled to.

Good luck!

Posted 2009-05-03T16:17:13Z
Helpful?(2)
Rated as Best Answer
 
2ShYOfACooLGuY2BBaD
(deleted account)

Men  are  giving  great  women  but  some , always  blow  things  for  themselves ,   You   deserve  much  better  than   to   have  a  man  who    plainly   pushes   you  to  the  side ,  Its  time  to   make  some new   plans  in life  And  make  new  changes  in  life ,   And  the changes  would   be  without  him   ,  You   deserve  a  guy  who  will truly   love   you  and   respect   you  for  who  you  are   And  not  take  advantage  of   your  loving  heart

I  would  consider  him  to  be  history  ,  Some  men  are  never  satisfied    But    I  would   go  to  court    And  file   for a   divorce  because   once  a  liar   they  are  always  a  liar  , Always  remember  that

Posted 2009-05-03T16:25:33Z
Helpful?(1)
Rated #2 out of 4
 
1709 answers
693 helpful answers

You don't need to talk to her to know what happened.. he met up with her again, started talking to her daily, probably met a few times and most likely had sex.. it's pretty obvious. You don't have to catch them in bed to know it happened. Don't be stupid.. he lied to you and she lied to you. You would never get the truth from her anyway. He didn't want to even be touched by you for 2 weeks let alone have sex.. wonder why?! Obviously was getting it elsewhere. I personally would leave.. but I'm sure you won't so just make sure he knows that lying & cheating will not be tolerated... it happens again, he'll be out the door quick.
Posted 2009-05-04T05:56:42Z
Helpful?(1)
Rated #3 out of 4
 

You're right.  I probably won't leave now.  I am not financially able to take care of me and my 2 kids.  But he does know that if it happens again he's gone.  In the mean time, I am getting my own checking account, going to RN school, and getting myself in a position so that I have options. I don't ever want to feel trapped again.  Thanks for everyone's advice!
Posted 2009-05-05T01:32:13Z
Helpful?(0)
Rated #4 out of 4

Sign in to participate

Got an answer for Lost Wife? Would you like to comment on the posted answers, or vote for the one which you think is the best?

Sign up for a free account, or sign in (if you're already a member).

Be The First To Answer

Other people asked questions on various topics, and are still waiting for answer. Would be great if you can take a sec and answer them


» More...
Feed - Subscribe to changes to this Q&A Blog
ADVERTISEMENT
  • Answers
  • Web
Copyright © 2006-2010, Yedda Inc. and respective copyright owners · CC License