hey there cosmo,
i have been married now for 20 yrs, we figure that after this long, after all the butterflies are gone & real life takes over, that mad love, well its taken a back seat for a while now, but...we are GREAT FRIENDS now! great friends! we figured we would be happy with that! well, now..the
butterflies are back , the sex is great our friendship is even better!
sooo i guess you have to ask yourself, are we friend's? go on from there! just my opinion!