Why is it that my husband can have multiple ...

Everyone is turned on by different things.  Sometimes when masturbating, you are thinking about weird things, or fantasies that would never really happen, and it is easier to have better or multiple orgasms.  When you're doing the real thing, it's not that it's not as good, it's just sometimes more in this world.  Most people can't have multiple orgasms at all.  I know I can't.  As long as you guys enjoy your sex, and spice of your sex life with new and exciting things, don't worry.  Enjoy what you have.

Unless a lover is a young man, it's pretty unusual for him to have multiple orgasms from intercourse. Even with modest age, it takes most men quite a while to "recharge his batteries" so to speak, and do "it" again and again. I have never heard of anyone ejaculating multiple times just because a woman is watching him perform. It almost sounds as though he really "gets off" with you watching, more than by having intercourse. That would be the opposite to me, for sure.

Because while masturbating, one have full control of his motions - the trick about male multiple orgasm in men is basically holding off half way through ejaculating and keeping some of the sperm inside and then working on to another orgasm. While having sex with another partner, there is not 100% control, his mind is occupied with other things, like how beautiful you look and how good everything feels and all that to keep trying to control that one specific moment in which to hold back.

The second one is harder to get- Have him take your hand inside his and guide you through the motions. There are lots of ways you can help him get there so your not a just a spectator, mutual masterbation can be fun Too