Husband wants a threesome I don't know how i feel ...

I think this idea of having a threesome bothers you and you think that this is not the right thing to do.  Discuss your feelings about this with your husband.  If he loves you, he won't even think of doing a threesome and won't pressure you to do something that is against your beliefs.  That means he is selfish and you don't share  the same values.

Ask him the reason why he wants a threesome, if he is lacking something in your marriage.  You need to consult a marriage counselor to solve this problem.

Good luck and I hope the best for you.

I'm sorry but I'd be the one angry at him,he has no right to be mad at you.

Don't do it,I can tell just by the way your asking this question that you are not comfortable with the situation.Absolutely don't give in because you may regret it the rest of yur life.

If he really loves you,then you'd be enough for him.Not saying to leave him,but don't give in,I can tell you feel strongly against this.

Good Luck!!!

Hi,
You received excellent answers (gave them 2 thumbs up each).  I would like to add several remarks:
1.  I bet he wants another girl in bed. 
2.  That should be an insult to you
     (as if you are not enough).
3.  I bet he won't agree to have add
     another man if you asked for..... 
4.  If I am right (I know I am) he is
     very selfish and thinks only about
     himself and his own plesures.
5.  Be honest with yourself: If you
     don't like it don't agree.... and
     ignor his reaction. 
6.  Get a marriage (or sexual) 
     counseling.  He has some problem
     that has to be attended (if you
     don't attend to it it might ruin your
     marriage).
Best regards,

A marriage bed is for two ONLY; husband and wife. You have every right not to accept any third party and not to be intimidated by any of your husband's comments. His immature reaction will hopefully change to respect for your opposition to any stranger joining you. It is your job to ensure that you have a secure and stable home until your husband can accept that.

Babe:  I will introduce myself as Dave, Please listen to what I have to say.

Do not start with a threesome you and your husband will be very sorry later on.  I was married for about 15 years when I asked my wife to have a threesome with my neighbor,  after that it started more and more with different men somehow it turned me on and then it was swing clubs, well not to go into detail but after 32 years of marriage it was divorce time,

she came home one night and said she loved me but she was not in love,and I am sure that this was a major reason for the divorce, 10 years has past and I finally was able to put this behind me.  Please listen and don't do it.